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Right, simple thing, getting me all flustered and what not. Someone cheats on you who love dearly yeah, you still wana be with them and such

forgive and forget or not?

well i can tell you I would not forgive or forget if someone cheated on me...

indeed

*ponders*

i guess im just too nice...iuno...

i would not forgive...unless..nope she wouldn't be forgiven

it seems to be different on a case buy case basis.

somtimes its cool to keep the relationship on.
somtimes its simply a bad idea.

(i personally would probably do some curb kicking in either case)

always forgive. (no matter which you choose)
but never forget.

Well, I'm not too good at advice but...

Hmm...if someone cheated on me I wouldn't be very happy about it, because I'd feel humiliated, hurt, etc. If I didn't like them that much then it wouldn't really bother me, because in that case I would have been hoping that they'd break off the relationship anyway, but if I liked them a lot I'd be devastated.
I guess it would depend on the who, wheres and whys for me...because if the other person only wanted to stay with me because they felt guilty then I wouldn't want to stay in the relationship.

I'm not very helpful...but I hope that helped...

all very insightful, i guess ill see how i feel after some halo....

If they mean THAT much to you...then I would forgive....and if it happened again...then I would kick em to the curb. But that's only if they mean that much to you. Otherwise, screw it...no need for b/s.

If they meant that much to you.
And cared for you the way you do them.
Then they would'nt had done that to you in the first place.
I'd do some head smashing and curb kicking.
I HATE being lied to.
And that is the ultimate lie.
If you care about someone you don't cheat.
You should in the least break up with them.

I never forgive, and most certainly NEVER forget.

Once a cheater, most always a cheater.

this matter is resolved

i free

from both wanting, caring, and generaly giving a fuck

w00t

Wise choice

and anyway... plenty of more hotties in the sea

kaos wrote:it seems to be different on a case buy case basis.

somtimes its cool to keep the relationship on.
somtimes its simply a bad idea.

(i personally would probably do some curb kicking in either case)

always forgive. (no matter which you choose)
but never forget.

I know this matter is resolved for you, Yasuo - But what Johnny said is one of the most dearest things that you should hold in your heart, and when you give your heart to others. What he said was what I believe, a powerfull message that I myself, have heard from the closest of friends and family alike with matters like these - because I can relate. Directly.

I went through the same shit that you have - Though it happened four times in the one relationship that we had. Four times - All in one relationship, which was hard to accept when that girl had changed me - And was there when I was in, and comming out of coma - It's things like that makes you love them so much.

I forgave - though I will never forget. I'll never forget the time that I had grabbed the shoulder of another guy she was with at the time and punched him in the face -Or when my best friend told me that she wanted to be with him instead of me.

Nor will I forget the time that she had fallen into my arms in tears and sorrow when I couldn't even recognize her after waking up in the hospital after 2 and a half weeks - Or when she tried to help me remember memories that we had together - always a tear following each question she spoke.

Thanks Johnny.

as you said man, cards

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^ Just something we were talking about earlyier Johnny. We were comparing his situation on life with a deck of cards.