How do I know if....

Zapages · Post by **Zapages** » Fri Apr 29, 2005 5:46 pm

How do I know if someone likes me?

ok guys. There is one girl, that I hang out with. She is my best friend and we have common interests and everything. We are both conservatives in some means and then others we are not.

Both of our friends says that we make the cutest couple all other girly talk. My friends are like pushing to ask her out, but I don't want to because. In our culture, dating is not permitted.

Anyway I kind of do like her, sometimes. But the other times I think of her as my best friend.

We go to the same college and we are mostly in the same classes as well.

She flirts with me sometimes and I do too, but not that much.

A couple days ago, she got into a fight with her father, which is she really close with because I said something could help her and their parents for their vacation plans. We are from the same country back home. Also she is going there this summer and I was going aswell. This is the first this happened. I was really surprised.

Also she switched out some of her classes so we had the same class at the same time.

Also I'm going to give my home address where I'm going for vacation. So we could both meet each other. Is it a good idea that I do that.

The problem is that our parents haven't met each other and we belong to the same religion. But I'm scared of taking it any further. As it might lead to things that I might regret, not talking about sex, with our parents if they found out.

Also she is the same age as myself, 19.... We are freshmen college.

All this is now... Plus I help her in our homework for many classes that we are assigned. Is she being because of that or does she really like more than a friend....

But before, she would talk to me and become all friendly then the second later she would trying to ignore me... Which I don't get.

So do you think that she likes more than a friend or not???! Because I just can't tell.

Trigo · Post by **Trigo** » Fri Apr 29, 2005 5:53 pm

u still having problems with that gel zap!!!

Zapages · Post by **Zapages** » Fri Apr 29, 2005 5:56 pm

Oh I forgot to say... We have blast together and we agree on many things.

I give her advice and we care for each other in some special way.

But I can't figure her out...

Whenever she needs some advice, I'm the first person she asks?! I don't know why?

I don't get your joke, Death?

??

Post by **Chewi** » Fri Apr 29, 2005 6:48 pm

It sounds wonderful. I guess she sometimes ignores you because of the cultural issues you have. I bet she doesn't want to really, it certainly doesn't sound like it. I try to be tolerant of other cultures but I can never understand that way of thinking.

Zapages · Post by **Zapages** » Fri Apr 29, 2005 8:05 pm

She used to a lot last semister... But now she doesn't anymore at all.

Spider Jerusalem · Post by **Spider Jerusalem** » Fri Apr 29, 2005 8:05 pm

Sometimes it just slaps you in the face.

You just never know.

Super Goat Weed · Post by **Super Goat Weed** » Fri Apr 29, 2005 9:24 pm

show her your dick and see what happens

Bogey · Post by **Bogey** » Fri Apr 29, 2005 9:41 pm

Best advice ever!

Zapages · Post by **Zapages** » Fri Apr 29, 2005 11:32 pm

Super Goat Weed wrote:show her your dick and see what happens

Yeah, then I'll blow any chance I have with her....

Anyway girls here have anything to say about this as they probably know how girls act when they like someone...

Bogey · Post by **Bogey** » Sat Apr 30, 2005 12:22 am

The word "blow" is well suited to this situation.

But seriously. The best thing you could possibly do is talk to her about it. You'll only regret it if you don't. You have to take chances in life when things like this pop up, or you'll get nowhere.

Zapages · Post by **Zapages** » Sat Apr 30, 2005 1:16 am

^already tried...

I can't get my feelings out to her.

I once told that if I ever liked a girl. I'll probably won't able to tell her. She was like "why not?" I said I'm too shy. She was like you're probably the least shy guy I know of and you'll probaby have already of have met her... Or something along those lines. I can't exactly remember what she said...

LOL I just realized that blow... Not good word to use there... more like I lose any chance I have with her.

She is more religous than me... So that why I'm like so worried. She has kind of made me religous as well in some manner or another. Which she is really proud of...

Narren7 · Post by **Narren7** » Sat Apr 30, 2005 1:22 am

Just swallow your pride overcome the shyness and talk to her about it.
If you can't say how you feel then what's the point?
You can't expect to start a relationship/life with someone if you can't even tell them truthfully how you feel about them.

Write it in a letter if you have to.

Zapages · Post by **Zapages** » Sat Apr 30, 2005 2:18 am

Its not about pride... Its more about being afraid of losing a great friendship... Also she being more religous and conservative about her view on things like myself in some aspects of life really makes it hard to tell her that I like her. I would be held back if one of my friends said that they liked me more than just a friend. That's why I'm having trouble telling her....

We have agreed to come over each other's places(grandparent's homes) when we go over seas this summer. We are from the same country. So our parents could meet each other. Maybe that could lead to better things or worse things... or even nothing.

Bogey · Post by **Bogey** » Sat Apr 30, 2005 2:28 am

Zapages wrote:We have agreed to come over each other's places

Is English your second language?

kaos · Post by **kaos** » Sat Apr 30, 2005 3:56 am

just one question.
If dating isnt permitted, then how do things wor?.
and what rculture is this?

edit: I guess thats two questions.